Once again... this bugs me...

I go on Gay.com often. I have friends there - I look for information and conversation there with people who are in my position. What bugs me - and it really bugs me... is when guys with naked pics and suggestive screen names contact me. I understand that a lot of these guys maybe just want to chat - but when I see a pic of an butt staring me in the face - I think the guy is an ass. When I see a pic of a penis looking right up at me - I think - this guy is a dick. I want no part of it. If they want to put naked pics in their profiles - fine - make them private - I don't want to see them. If I am curious, I will ask.

Maybe I am just cynical - but when a guy with a naked pic contacts me - I think he must be looking for sex. If they are honestly just looking for conversation, then get another screen name with a simple face shot, or no shot at all. Quite honestly, the guys with these pornographic pics - aren't guys I would look at twice anyway. I sometimes think that the cyber-age has allowed flashers to do their flashing in the comfort of their own homes.

I just don't appreciate it.